A ju ka ndodhur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00eb, pas nj\u00eb arritjeje t\u00eb madhe ose nj\u00eb lavd\u00ebrimi n\u00eb pun\u00eb, t\u00eb ndjeni nj\u00eb shtr\u00ebngim n\u00eb stomak dhe mendimin: “Sikur ta dinin q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk jam aq i zoti sa mendojn\u00eb?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse po, nuk jeni vet\u00ebm. Ju jeni duke p\u00ebrjetuar at\u00eb q\u00eb psikologjia e quan Sindroma e Impostorit (apo Sindroma e Mashtruesit). Ky fenomen prek miliona njer\u00ebz n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb figurat m\u00eb t\u00eb larta t\u00eb artit, shkenc\u00ebs dhe medias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb kjo sindrom\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr munges\u00eb modestie, por p\u00ebr nj\u00eb paaft\u00ebsi t\u00eb brendshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb pranuar suksesin. Personat q\u00eb vuajn\u00eb nga kjo sindrom\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb bindur se arritjet e tyre jan\u00eb rezultat i fatit, i koh\u00ebs s\u00eb duhur, ose i faktit q\u00eb kan\u00eb “manipuluar” t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00eb t\u2019u besojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ata jetojn\u00eb me frik\u00ebn konstante se, her\u00ebt a von\u00eb, do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb do t’i “shfaq\u00eb” ata si t\u00eb paaft\u00eb para t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shenjat q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se po vuani nga ky fenomen:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1.Perfeksionizmi i tepruar: Vendosni standarde aq t\u00eb larta p\u00ebr veten, saq\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb gabim minimal ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndiheni si d\u00ebshtak\u00eb total\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Paradoksi: Pse preken m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb interesante se kjo sindrom\u00eb godet rrall\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nuk kan\u00eb aft\u00ebsi. P\u00ebrkundrazi, ajo lul\u00ebzon te njer\u00ebzit me inteligjenc\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb dhe ambicie. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00ebson dhe sa m\u00eb lart ngjitesh, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb e kupton se sa pak di n\u00eb krahasim me universin e informacionit, dhe kjo krijon pasiguri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“Kam shkruar 11 libra, por sa her\u00eb mbaroj nj\u00eb, mendoj: ‘Tani do ta marrin vesh. Kam luajtur me ta dhe tani do t\u00eb m\u00eb kapin’.” – Maya Angelou, shkrimtare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si t\u2019i shp\u00ebtoni k\u00ebsaj gracke mendore?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Suksesi juaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rast\u00ebsi. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb fryt i net\u00ebve pa gjum\u00eb, pun\u00ebs suaj dhe vendimeve q\u00eb keni marr\u00eb. Her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr kur z\u00ebri i brendsh\u00ebm t’ju thot\u00eb se “nuk vleni”, kujtojini vetes se ky z\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta, por thjesht nj\u00eb efekt an\u00ebsor i rritjes suaj profesionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse ky artikull ju ndihmoi t\u00eb kuptoni veten, shp\u00ebrndajeni q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmoni edhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb \u00e7lirohen nga ky ankth i paduksh\u00ebm!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
A ju ka ndodhur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00eb, pas nj\u00eb arritjeje t\u00eb madhe ose nj\u00eb lavd\u00ebrimi n\u00eb pun\u00eb, t\u00eb ndjeni nj\u00eb shtr\u00ebngim n\u00eb stomak dhe mendimin: “Sikur ta dinin q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk jam aq i zoti sa mendojn\u00eb?” N\u00ebse po, nuk jeni vet\u00ebm. Ju jeni duke p\u00ebrjetuar at\u00eb q\u00eb psikologjia e quan Sindroma e Impostorit (apo Sindroma […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17224,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-17223","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-jeta"},"yoast_head":"\n