Vali Qyrfy\u00e7i <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tetori Roz\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb koha kur flasim p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin ndaj kancerit t\u00eb gjirit, nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje q\u00eb prek jet\u00ebt e shum\u00eb grave n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn. Megjithat\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa fokusohemi te kjo betej\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb muaj, ekzistojn\u00eb edhe lloje t\u00eb tjera kanceri, po aq sfiduese, q\u00eb transformojn\u00eb jet\u00ebt n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme. S\u00ebmundja nuk zgjedh dhe p\u00ebrballja me t\u00eb k\u00ebrkon forc\u00eb, kurajo, shpesh dhe vetmi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00eb p\u00ebrballesh me nj\u00eb diagnoz\u00eb, s\u00ebmundje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh vet\u00ebm. Ta ndjesh t\u00eb plot\u00eb pesh\u00ebn e vetmis\u00eb. Gjith\u00e7ka rreth teje ngushtohet. Ndryshon. Qenia jote dhe e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb lidhur me ty vihet n\u00eb diskutim. Raportet krisen, ose forcohen. Gjith\u00e7ka ndryshon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Duhet t\u00eb reagosh, ose t\u00eb shuhesh. P\u00ebrreth teje has reagime nga m\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7uditshmet, edhe nga t\u00eb panjohur. Disa me dashamir\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb s’\u00ebsht\u00eb asgj\u00eb, do t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb. Disa me lot n\u00eb sy p\u00ebr diagnoz\u00ebn q\u00eb nuk l\u00eb shum\u00eb vend p\u00ebr diskutim. Mjek\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt se shum\u00ebkush q\u00eb ke pran\u00eb. Miq q\u00eb t\u00eb inkurajojn\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb indiferentin n\u00eb mizerjen rutinore t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb vet. Disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb \u00e7uditen e diskutojn\u00eb me z\u00eb, pas krah\u00ebve t\u00eb tu, se si mund t\u00eb vazhdosh jet\u00ebn normalisht pas k\u00ebsaj. S\u00ebmundja barazon me tretje, me dergjie n\u00eb krevat, rrethuar mes lot\u00ebsh e dhembjesh deri n\u00eb shuarje. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00eb tjer\u00eb fshehin lig\u00ebsin\u00eb pas nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshjeje hipokrite. Nuk e dua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jeta kthehet n\u00eb nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb ndryshe, t\u00eb tejskajshme, t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. Dhe ti duhet t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh llojin e p\u00ebrballjes me t\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ast disa ikin p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb larguar kthehen si t\u00eb mos kishin ikur kurr\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00eb njohur fshihen n\u00ebn maska, e t\u00eb panjohur dalin n\u00eb drit\u00eb but\u00ebsisht. Jan\u00eb aty p\u00ebr ty, dhe ti e di se do t’u jesh mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebse dhe p\u00ebrtej. Kudo q\u00eb t\u00eb shkosh. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb a t\u00eb path\u00ebn\u00eb, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqafim, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb mesazh. E t\u00eb gjitha b\u00ebhen bashk\u00eb dhe marrin Fuqin\u00eb e Lutjes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb nj\u00eb sall\u00eb pritjeje ku t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, t\u00eb moshuar, t\u00eb shohin me habi, pa kuptuar se k\u00eb po shoq\u00ebron. Emri t\u00eb ting\u00ebllon \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm dhe harrohesh pas shqiptimit t\u00eb tij diku larg vendit t\u00eb cilit i p\u00ebrket. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb “personale” spitalore loja me ngjyrat e dritat v\u00ebrshon brenda qenies t\u00ebnde, teksa p\u00ebrgatitesh p\u00ebr ekzaminimin e radh\u00ebs. Tingujt e leht\u00eb t\u00eb valseve t\u00eb Shtrausit zbresin nga lart dhe flaka e nj\u00eb oxhaku elegant elektrik e b\u00ebn t\u00eb leht\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitjen p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb pasoj\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Qet\u00ebsi. Do t\u00eb doje t\u00eb ikje nga nj\u00eb vend si ky ku vetja, ngjyrat, tingujt dhe bardh\u00ebsia e mureve shkrihen n\u00eb nj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb harrohesh. Shuhesh n\u00eb morin\u00eb e ndjesive dhe ndjehesh n\u00eb paqe me vetmin\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb dhom\u00eb q\u00eb shijon \u00ebmb\u00ebl. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dit\u00ebt, muajt, vitet kalojn\u00eb dhe ti e kap\u00ebrcen pritshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e mjek\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe forcon besimin te Caktimi dhe Fuqia e t\u00eb Madhit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00ebzimi i nj\u00eb mjekeje t\u00eb huaj kur t\u00eb jep lajmin se ka ndodhur mrekullia dhe je FREE nuk t\u00eb ngacmon. T\u00eb l\u00eb indiferente, por jo g\u00ebzimi i saj. Quhet Monika L. Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb apatia t\u00eb kaplon, kujton fytyr\u00ebn e saj, g\u00ebzimin e saj, dhe gjith\u00e7ka ndryshon brenda teje. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sa mir\u00eb q\u00eb ka Mjek\u00eb rrezatues! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sa mir\u00eb q\u00eb ka Njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb aty p\u00ebr t\u00eb leht\u00ebsuar rrug\u00ebtimin, pa kuptuar p\u00ebr rolin q\u00eb marrin dhe vendin q\u00eb zen\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb brenda teje. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dhe sfida vazhdon. \u00cbsht\u00eb sfida e jet\u00ebs q\u00eb ngarkohet me rrethana e njer\u00ebz t\u00eb fokusuar diku tjet\u00ebr. Ti s’je fokus i tyre. The show must go on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dhe nis t\u00eb hallakatesh me flok\u00eb q\u00eb bien, po q\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb imazh t\u00eb kuruar duhen lyer e krehur her\u00eb pas here. T\u00eb ndalohet t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh make-up p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb kimikateve dhe pasojave t\u00eb tyre, por duhet ta b\u00ebsh. Kurimi i imazhit. Bota na do t\u00eb bukur se ti vler\u00ebsohesh p\u00ebr dukjen, jo p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb je. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Edhe n\u00ebse nuk shkon n\u00eb plazh je e \u00e7uditshme. Si mundesh?! E n\u00ebse shkon e rri p\u00ebr or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra p\u00ebr shkak pune, s’ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi pasoja. Duhet b\u00ebr\u00eb puna. Pasoja \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi yt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
E n\u00ebse ik\u00ebn, pa kthim, s\u00ebrish s’ka gj\u00eb. Do t\u00eb harrohesh menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas ikjes s\u00eb radh\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ndaj sfido veten, s\u00ebmundjen dhe jeto aq sa mundesh!!! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tik-taku do t\u00eb trokas\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
E deri at\u00ebher\u00eb ka koh\u00eb dhe bota ka njer\u00ebz shpirtbukur plot e ti, mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebse, n\u00eb heshtje lutesh dhe falenderon p\u00ebr ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Vali Qyrfy\u00e7i Tetori Roz\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb koha kur flasim p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin ndaj kancerit t\u00eb gjirit, nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje q\u00eb prek jet\u00ebt e shum\u00eb grave n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn. Megjithat\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa fokusohemi te kjo betej\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb muaj, ekzistojn\u00eb edhe lloje t\u00eb tjera kanceri, po aq sfiduese, q\u00eb transformojn\u00eb jet\u00ebt n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme. S\u00ebmundja nuk […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2511,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2797","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-mendimi-yt"],"yoast_head":"\n