Nga Vali Qyrfy\u00e7i <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vrasja e 14-vje\u00e7arit Martin Cani nga bashk\u00ebmoshatari i vet \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjarje trondit\u00ebse q\u00eb na jep nj\u00eb shuplak\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb, na l\u00ebndon fort dhe na shkund duke na nxitur t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve t\u00eb reflektojm\u00eb thell\u00eb mbi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb tona si shoq\u00ebri. Ky akt i dhunsh\u00ebm, ndodhur mes adoleshent\u00ebsh, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb e hidhur p\u00ebr at\u00eb se si tensionet dhe konfliktet e pazgjidhura, edhe ato m\u00eb t\u00eb voglat, mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb n\u00eb tragjedi t\u00eb pakthyeshme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb brisht\u00eb, kur djemt\u00eb jan\u00eb ende n\u00eb faz\u00ebn e formimit emocional dhe social, prind\u00ebrit, m\u00ebsuesit dhe shoq\u00ebria n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi duhet t\u00eb luajn\u00eb nj\u00eb rol ky\u00e7 n\u00eb edukimin e tyre mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e dialogut, toleranc\u00ebs dhe zgjidhjes paq\u00ebsore t\u00eb konflikteve. Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, kjo ngjarje tregon d\u00ebshtimin ton\u00eb kolektiv p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb mjedis q\u00eb promovon vlera pozitive dhe ndihmon f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb menaxhojn\u00eb emocionet dhe situatat konfliktuale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kujtojm\u00eb se shkolla \u00ebsht\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm vendi ku nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit marrin dije, por edhe hap\u00ebsira ku nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie dhe m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetojn\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, shkolla nuk arriti t\u00eb v\u00ebzhgonte dhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhynte n\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar nj\u00eb p\u00ebrshkall\u00ebzim t\u00eb till\u00eb fatal. P\u00ebrplasjet mes djemve ishin prezente prej disa dit\u00ebsh, si brenda mureve t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs, por m\u00eb t\u00eb ashpra jasht\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrejtur dhe raportuar ky konflikt? A ka pasur ndonj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsim? K\u00ebto jan\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebrtej p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs, familja mbetet institucioni baz\u00eb ku f\u00ebmij\u00ebt formojn\u00eb vlerat dhe sjelljet e tyre. Por \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh kur familjet vet\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb informacion, jan\u00eb n\u00eb terr t\u00eb plot\u00eb p\u00ebr problematikat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre q\u00eb s’duan ti m\u00ebrzisin ata me problemet e tyre “t\u00eb vogla”, por gjithashtu nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb pajisura me mjetet e duhura p\u00ebr t\u00eb trajtuar dhe orientuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb k\u00ebto situata? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Po ndikimi i rrjeteve sociale, i medias dhe i dhun\u00ebs q\u00eb ngrihet n\u00eb piedestal n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri? A po kontribuojn\u00eb k\u00ebto element\u00eb n\u00eb normalizimin e konfliktit dhe p\u00ebrdorimin e dhun\u00ebs si zgjidhje e konflikteve? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo tragjedi, q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja, na tregon se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mjaftueshme t\u00eb faj\u00ebsojm\u00eb individ\u00eb, familje, shkoll\u00eb, apo raste t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta. Ajo k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb rishikim t\u00eb gjithansh\u00ebm t\u00eb sistemit ton\u00eb edukativ dhe social. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7far\u00eb po na ndodh si shoq\u00ebri? Pse heshtim t\u00eb ve\u00e7uar teksa prind\u00ebrit e \u00e7do adoleshenti p\u00ebrballen vazhdimisht me frik\u00ebn p\u00ebr sigurin\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre brenda dhe jasht\u00eb shkolle?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pse p\u00ebrp\u00eblitemi zem\u00ebrshtr\u00ebnguar nga frika se mos dhe f\u00ebmija jon\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihet n\u00eb t\u00eb ashtuquajturat “ballafaqime” nga t\u00eb cilat gjithnj\u00eb ka t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nevojitet nj\u00eb qasje shum\u00ebplan\u00ebshe, rritja e mb\u00ebshtetjes psikologjike n\u00eb shkolla, forcimi i rolit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve dhe edukator\u00ebve n\u00eb menaxhimin e konflikteve dhe nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi i t\u00eb rinjve p\u00ebr pasojat e veprimeve t\u00eb tyre. Forcimi i autoritetit dhe figures s\u00eb oficerit t\u00eb siguris\u00eb n\u00eb shkolla q\u00eb r\u00ebndom \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb punonj\u00ebs q\u00eb nuk e ka autoritetin mes adoleshent\u00ebve n\u00eb shkollat 9-vje\u00e7are dhe t\u00eb mesme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I friksh\u00ebm dhe mosreagimi i qytetar\u00ebve n\u00eb konflikt. I turpsh\u00ebm reagimi i atyre q\u00eb n\u00eb vend t\u00eb afrohen e t\u00eb ndajn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nxitojn\u00eb t\u00eb nxjerrin celular\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb filmuar sherrin e hedhur n\u00eb rrjetet sociale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mos b\u00ebj gazetarin, po b\u00ebj qytetarin!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nes\u00ebr mund t\u00eb jesh ti zem\u00ebrp\u00ebrp\u00eblitur a pa puls n\u00eb rrethana t\u00eb ngjashme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb i vet\u00ebm mund t\u00eb mos e ndal\u00eb sherrin e krimin, po n\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishin t\u00eb shumt\u00eb qytetar\u00ebt, t\u00eb rriturit q\u00eb do t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhynin padyshim q\u00eb nuk do kishim kaq dhembje e lot, nuk do ndjeheshim t\u00eb kapur n\u00eb grack\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Martini do t\u00eb ishte midis nesh dhe i qet\u00eb q\u00eb e mbrojt\u00ebn. Mario P. do t\u00eb kuptonte se ishte ende n\u00eb jet\u00eb duke shijuar mosh\u00ebn dhe jo barr\u00ebn e nj\u00eb krimi makab\u00ebr q\u00eb ende nuk e ka perceptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb sjell\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. Edhe ne nuk do t\u00eb vuanim humbjen e madhe, as goditjen q\u00eb t\u00eb jep thika q\u00eb reklamonte n\u00eb rrjetin e vet social Mario pas konfliktit t\u00eb pak dit\u00ebve m\u00eb para, duke i dh\u00ebn\u00eb vrasjes s\u00eb djeshme ngjyr\u00ebn e fort\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb krimi t\u00eb paralajm\u00ebruar. Asnj\u00eb nuk reagoi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Faleminderit farmacistes Kristina p\u00ebr t\u00eb qenit aty! P\u00ebr t\u00eb ofruarit e dhembshuris\u00eb s\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe qytetares s\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjshme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Faleminderit p\u00ebr shembullin dhe heroin\u00ebn q\u00eb na dhe! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb falenderim zemre dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebdo m\u00ebsues q\u00eb vihet n\u00eb dijeni dhe reagon kujdessh\u00ebm n\u00eb konfliktet mes nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve, q\u00eb nuk mungojn\u00eb n\u00eb asnj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Un\u00eb e kam nj\u00eb em\u00ebr n\u00eb mendje, nga nj\u00eb rast konkret, dhe i jam mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebse sepse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb heroin\u00eb. Faleminderit!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuk mund ta kthejm\u00eb m\u00eb Martinin e vog\u00ebl, por mund t\u00eb marrim m\u00ebsime nga kjo humbje e tmerrshme. Kjo ngjarje duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb thirrje p\u00ebr veprim. Jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar humbjen e jet\u00ebve t\u00eb tjera, por p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri m\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, m\u00eb t\u00eb kujdesshme dhe m\u00eb humane p\u00ebr brezat e ardhsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb thirrje p\u00ebr veprim n\u00eb \u00e7do hallk\u00eb. Nuk duam nx\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer. Duam f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb dhe qytetar\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, t\u00eb angazhuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Nga Vali Qyrfy\u00e7i Vrasja e 14-vje\u00e7arit Martin Cani nga bashk\u00ebmoshatari i vet \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjarje trondit\u00ebse q\u00eb na jep nj\u00eb shuplak\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb, na l\u00ebndon fort dhe na shkund duke na nxitur t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve t\u00eb reflektojm\u00eb thell\u00eb mbi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb tona si shoq\u00ebri. Ky akt i dhunsh\u00ebm, ndodhur mes adoleshent\u00ebsh, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb e hidhur p\u00ebr […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3490,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-mendimi-yt"],"yoast_head":"\n