T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn dy familje n\u00eb vend po p\u00ebrballen sot me ankthin dhe pasigurin\u00eb q\u00eb sjell mungesa e nj\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmi. Brenda 24 or\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit, jan\u00eb regjistruar dy raste t\u00eb largimeve nga banesa: nj\u00eb 21-vje\u00e7ar n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb grua 41-vje\u00e7are n\u00eb Kavaj\u00eb. T\u00eb dyja rastet jan\u00eb denoncuar n\u00eb polici, e cila ka nisur menj\u00ebher\u00eb procedurat p\u00ebr shpalljen n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim dhe hetimin e shkaqeve t\u00eb mundshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb rastin e par\u00eb, nj\u00eb 59-vje\u00e7ar iu drejtua komisariatit p\u00ebr t\u00eb raportuar se djali i tij nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi q\u00eb nga data 10 prill. N\u00eb Kavaj\u00eb, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb denoncoi largimin e papritur t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortes s\u00eb tij dhe humbjen e kontakteve. Edhe pse k\u00ebto episode mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb shkaqe t\u00eb ndryshme nga vendime t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjshme p\u00ebr t\u2019u larguar, deri te forma m\u00eb e thell\u00eb e rebelimit apo reagimit emocional. Ato mbeten gjithmon\u00eb ngjarje me pasoja t\u00eb m\u00ebdha p\u00ebr familjar\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ky fenomen \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer tashm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme p\u00ebr strukturat e rendit, q\u00eb detyrohen t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyjn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do rast t\u00eb till\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbuluar n\u00ebse pas largimit fshihet nj\u00eb histori dhune, presioni psikologjik, nj\u00eb akt kriminal, apo thjesht d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr pavar\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb, largimi i nj\u00eb t\u00eb rrituri nga banesa mund t\u00eb duket si \u00e7\u00ebshtje personale. Por kur motivet nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb qarta dhe kur nuk ka asnj\u00eb komunikim me familjar\u00ebt, dyshimet rriten dhe frika merr p\u00ebrmasa t\u00eb reja. P\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit dhe bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb traum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, q\u00eb shpesh shoq\u00ebrohet me ndjenja faji, paqart\u00ebsi dhe pafuqi p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar \u00e7far\u00eb ka ndodhur dhe pse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, edhe p\u00ebr policin\u00eb kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb barr\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb shmanget. Sepse \u00e7do rast duhet trajtuar me seriozitet, meq\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb dit\u00ebs, pas nj\u00eb largimi t\u00eb till\u00eb mund t\u00eb fshihet nj\u00eb histori abuzimi, nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie toksike, apo m\u00eb keq akoma, nj\u00eb akt kriminal.
Kujtojm\u00eb dhe rastet kur bijt\u00eb raportuan n\u00eb policin\u00eb e Durr\u00ebsit nj\u00eb vit m\u00eb par\u00eb largimin nga sht\u00ebpia t\u00eb baballar\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre. Dy raste t\u00eb ndryshme, dy familje t\u00eb ndryshme, po fat i nj\u00eajt\u00eb. T\u00eb dyja n\u00eb Sh\u00ebnavlash. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb k\u00ebrkonin ndihm\u00eb p\u00ebr et\u00ebrit, rezultoi pas hetimeve policore t\u00eb ishin atvras\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shpesh k\u00ebto ngjarje kalojn\u00eb pa shum\u00eb buj\u00eb, por jan\u00eb tregues t\u00eb nj\u00eb realiteti q\u00eb flet p\u00ebr tensione familjare, munges\u00eb komunikimi dhe shpesh p\u00ebr paaft\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar ndryshimet q\u00eb sjell rritja, pavar\u00ebsimi dhe krizat brenda nj\u00eb lidhjeje dhe nj\u00eb familjeje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ndaj, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 nd\u00ebrhyrjes policore, nevojitet edhe nd\u00ebrhyrje sociale, mb\u00ebshtetje psikologjike p\u00ebr familjet dhe sidomos krijimi i nj\u00eb kulture dialogu dhe mir\u00ebkuptimi brenda mureve t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Sepse kur sht\u00ebpia mbetet bosh, ajo q\u00eb mungon nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb person fizikisht, por edhe nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e siguris\u00eb emocionale dhe ekuilibrit familjar, p\u00ebrpos rasteve kriminale kur ajo q\u00eb mbetet pas \u00ebsht\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrimi dhe trauma e pariparueshme.
V.Q.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn dy familje n\u00eb vend po p\u00ebrballen sot me ankthin dhe pasigurin\u00eb q\u00eb sjell mungesa e nj\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmi. Brenda 24 or\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit, jan\u00eb regjistruar dy raste t\u00eb largimeve nga banesa: nj\u00eb 21-vje\u00e7ar n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb grua 41-vje\u00e7are n\u00eb Kavaj\u00eb. T\u00eb dyja rastet jan\u00eb denoncuar n\u00eb polici, e cila ka nisur menj\u00ebher\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":6831,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6830","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-mendimi-yt"],"yoast_head":"\n