N\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur jemi t\u00eb bombarduar nga zhurmat e jashtme dhe tundimet e \u00e7astit, ideja se disiplina mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsi i liris\u00eb ting\u00ebllon kontradiktore. Por a mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht vet\u00ebkontrolli ai q\u00eb na \u00e7liron nga tirania e vetes s\u00eb paq\u00ebndrueshme?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr i fundit, frym\u00ebzuar nga nj\u00eb metafor\u00eb e lasht\u00eb n\u00eb Bhagavad Gita, sjell n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje figur\u00ebn e Arjun\u00ebs, nj\u00eb luft\u00ebtar i mb\u00ebrthyer n\u00eb kriz\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore n\u00eb prag t\u00eb betej\u00ebs. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rr\u00ebfim modern, \u201cArjuna\u201d nuk mban m\u00eb shpata, por p\u00ebrballet me nj\u00eb armik m\u00eb t\u00eb rafinuar: veten e tij, t\u00eb ndar\u00eb mes d\u00ebshirave t\u00eb shpejta dhe q\u00ebllimeve t\u00eb thella. Ai na fton n\u00eb nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim psiko-social p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se si disiplinimi i mendjes dhe trupit nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kufizim, por nj\u00eb form\u00eb \u00e7lirimi q\u00eb lind nga brenda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Disiplina si form\u00eb lirie, paradoksi q\u00eb shp\u00ebton<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, libri shemb mitin se disiplina \u00ebsht\u00eb baraz me shtypjen. P\u00ebrkundrazi, ajo paraqitet si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb kontrollin mbi jet\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme me koh\u00ebn, energjin\u00eb dhe veten. Autori shkruan: \u201cMendja e padisiplinuar \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tiran i veshur me emrin liri\u201d. Dhe kush prej nesh nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjer\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb peng i vet\u00eb liris\u00eb s\u00eb vet, duke u endur pa q\u00ebllim, n\u00eb nj\u00eb cik\u00ebl pa vendime t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme?<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb aspektin psiko-social, kjo qasje rikthen v\u00ebmendjen te nj\u00eb koncept i harruar: q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebria e karakterit si themel i nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Nj\u00eb drejtues korporate q\u00eb ndryshon rutin\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebrmes menaxhimit t\u00eb disiplinuar t\u00eb koh\u00ebs, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb rrit produktivitetin, por p\u00ebrjeton nj\u00eb ulje t\u00eb stresit dhe nj\u00eb rritje t\u00eb qet\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb brendshme, d\u00ebshmi e fuqis\u00eb s\u00eb struktur\u00ebs n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7rregullt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur zakonet e vogla nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb trash\u00ebgimi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nga pik\u00ebpamja psikologjike, libri thekson r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e mikrozakoneve, p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimeve t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb, me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, krijojn\u00eb transformime madhore. Nj\u00eb shembull dometh\u00ebn\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb ai i dy student\u00ebve: nj\u00ebri m\u00ebson p\u00ebrdit\u00eb nga pak, tjetri l\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr n\u00eb minut\u00ebn e fundit. Rezultatet jan\u00eb t\u00eb qarta, por m\u00eb shum\u00eb se notat, diferenca \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb mentalitet. Studenti i disiplinuar nd\u00ebrton nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme me dijen dhe t\u00eb ardhmen. \u201cDisiplina \u00ebsht\u00eb devotshm\u00ebri ndaj vetes s\u00eb ardhshme\u201d, shkruan autori, duke kthyer kujdesin p\u00ebr veten n\u00eb nj\u00eb akt dashurie dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00eb djegurit sjell rritjen<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb aspektin emocional, disiplina shpesh shoq\u00ebrohet me sakrific\u00eb. Dhe me t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. T\u00eb ndahesh nga zakone t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, t\u00eb refuzosh k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e menj\u00ebhershme, apo t\u00eb durosh nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb pasigurie k\u00ebrkon guxim. Por libri na kujton se \u00e7do akt rritjeje k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb \u201cdjegie\u201d. \u201cP\u00ebr t’u rritur, duhet m\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb digjesh\u201d, thot\u00eb nj\u00eb sip\u00ebrmarr\u00ebs q\u00eb braktisi shprehit\u00eb e nat\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. N\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel m\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb transformimi i brendsh\u00ebm q\u00eb ndodh kur zgjedhim t\u00eb mos jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqe, por t\u00eb p\u00ebrballemi me sfidat me q\u00ebllim dhe q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nderi dhe zgjedhjet kur askush s\u2019na sheh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb kontekstin social, koncepti i nderit ka humbur pesh\u00ebn e dikurshme. Por libri e rivendos at\u00eb si nj\u00eb form\u00eb etike t\u00eb jetes\u00ebs, jo p\u00ebr syt\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, por p\u00ebr veten. Historia e nj\u00eb ark\u00ebtari q\u00eb kthen kusurin e tep\u00ebrt nj\u00eb klienti t\u00eb verb\u00ebr, pa d\u00ebshmitar\u00eb, b\u00ebhet simbol i nj\u00eb morali t\u00eb rrall\u00eb: ai q\u00eb lind nga vet\u00ebdija e brendshme dhe jo nga nevoja p\u00ebr duartrokitje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Nuk \u201cfiton\u201d nder. B\u00ebhesh ai p\u00ebrmes zgjedhjeve q\u00eb b\u00ebn \u00e7do dit\u00eb”, shkruhet n\u00eb lib\u00ebr. Ky mesazh flet fort p\u00ebr nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri ku integriteti shpesh mbetet n\u00eb hije.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trash\u00ebgimia si q\u00ebllim p\u00ebrtej jet\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sw fundmi, libri shtron pyetjen m\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb q\u00eb secili nga ne e mban fshehur: \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb l\u00ebm\u00eb pas? N\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb fiksuar pas suksesit t\u00eb menj\u00ebhersh\u00ebm, ai na kujton se vler\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe ka ndikimi afatgjat\u00eb, trash\u00ebgimia q\u00eb nd\u00ebrtohet me p\u00ebrkushtim t\u00eb heshtur \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Qoft\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebsues q\u00eb frym\u00ebzon breza apo nj\u00eb figur\u00eb historike q\u00eb sfidoi normat, mesazhi \u00ebsht\u00eb i qart\u00eb: Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb vdesim. Por pak mbahen mend. Dhe m\u00eb pak akoma, mbahen mend me nderim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Disiplina si revolucion i brendsh\u00ebm<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ky lib\u00ebr nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb manual p\u00ebr p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsim personal. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb reflektim i thell\u00eb psiko-social p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si jetojm\u00eb, vendosim dhe ndikojm\u00eb. Ai e rikthen disiplin\u00ebn n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb debatit p\u00ebr lirin\u00eb, jo si kontroll, por si nj\u00eb akt rebelimi kund\u00ebr kaosit t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm dhe presioneve t\u00eb jashtme. Nj\u00eb thirrje p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar jo sipas impulseve t\u00eb momentit, por sipas vlerave q\u00eb duam t\u00eb mish\u00ebrojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb ku motivimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i paq\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm dhe fjal\u00ebt frym\u00ebzuese shpesh bosh, ky lib\u00ebr b\u00ebhet z\u00ebri i nj\u00eb realiteti tjet\u00ebr: Disiplina nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb mjet p\u00ebr sukses, por nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb njeri me dinjitet, me q\u00ebllim dhe me ndikim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, ndoshta \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ajo q\u00eb shkruhet n\u00eb faqe t\u00eb fundit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cJeta e padisiplinuar vdes n\u00eb heshtje. Jeta e disiplinuar jehon p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsisht.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dhe ndoshta, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jehon\u00eb, mund t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se suksesin, mund t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb vetveten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00a9\ufe0fz\u00ebrionline<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" N\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur jemi t\u00eb bombarduar nga zhurmat e jashtme dhe tundimet e \u00e7astit, ideja se disiplina mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsi i liris\u00eb ting\u00ebllon kontradiktore. Por a mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht vet\u00ebkontrolli ai q\u00eb na \u00e7liron nga tirania e vetes s\u00eb paq\u00ebndrueshme? Nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr i fundit, frym\u00ebzuar nga nj\u00eb metafor\u00eb e lasht\u00eb n\u00eb Bhagavad […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":8511,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8509","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-jeta"],"yoast_head":"\n