Kur nj\u00eb person nuk mund t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb thell\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb vet, ai shp\u00ebrqendrohet me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb rrethanore (Viktor Frankl).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Duke u rritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi ku isha inkurajuar vet\u00ebm t\u00eb lexoja libra akademik\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk m\u00eb dukeshin kurr\u00eb m\u00eb pak interesant\u00eb, burimi i vet\u00ebm i arg\u00ebtimit ishte televizioni. Kjo u b\u00eb m\u00eb keq nd\u00ebrsa rritesha, sepse nuk isha nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i shoq\u00ebruesh\u00ebm dhe vija nga nj\u00eb familje e vog\u00ebl ku ishim vet\u00ebm prind\u00ebrit e mi, v\u00ebllai im dhe un\u00eb. Shikoja televizion sa her\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb jepej mund\u00ebsia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur fillova t\u00eb punoja, e vetmja gj\u00eb q\u00eb mendoja kur po p\u00ebrfundoja pun\u00ebn ishte se \u00e7far\u00eb programi do t\u00eb shikoja. Kush do ta kishte menduar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb se nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb pajtohesha me Emilia Clarke kur tha “Babai im gjithmon\u00eb thoshte: “Mos i beso kurr\u00eb dikujt q\u00eb ka televizor m\u00eb t\u00eb madh se rafti i librave” – k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb un\u00eb sigurohem q\u00eb t\u00eb lexoj.” Dhe natyrisht pajtohem me Zig Ziglar q\u00eb tha \u201cNjer\u00ebzit e pasur kan\u00eb televizor\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl dhe biblioteka t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, nd\u00ebrsa njer\u00ebzit e varf\u00ebr kan\u00eb biblioteka t\u00eb vogla dhe televizor\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj.\u201d Kam shkruar p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e rizbulova veten dhe fillova t\u00eb lexoja. Sot m\u00eb mir\u00eb lexoj se sa shikoj televizor, apo internet n\u00eb celular dhe jam shum\u00eb i bindur se kushdo mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebhet versioni m\u00eb i mir\u00eb i vetes pavar\u00ebsisht prejardhjes s\u00eb vet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sot, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb vinit tek un\u00eb me nj\u00eb list\u00eb justifikimesh se pse nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshoni, do t’ju thoja vet\u00ebm se nuk jeni ende gati p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar. Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb duan t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb p\u00ebr mir\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb gjejn\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Po, ndryshimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb ku k\u00ebrkohet t\u00eb jetosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatesh, por do t\u00eb vlej\u00eb. Nuk do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb brenda nat\u00ebs dhe nuk duhet ta faj\u00ebsoni veten p\u00ebr mosndryshimin brenda nat\u00ebs. Ndryshimi \u00ebsht\u00eb gradual. Merreni nj\u00eb hap n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb i dhimbsh\u00ebm, por i vlefsh\u00ebm. M\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballoj dhimbjen e ndryshimit sesa dhimbjen e pendimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u00eb par\u00eb shikoja televizion sepse nuk mund t\u00eb mendoja p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Nuk kisha plane p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn time p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe t\u00eb shikoja televizion. Kur njer\u00ebzit ndihen t\u00eb paplot\u00ebsuar dhe u mungon nj\u00eb kuptim dhe drejtim n\u00eb jet\u00eb, ata shikojn\u00eb jasht\u00eb vetes p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbushur zbraz\u00ebtin\u00eb. Ata mund t\u00eb kthehen tek alkooli, seksi, gj\u00ebrat materiale ose edhe te njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb. Por k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra sjellin vet\u00ebm k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohshme. Lumturia dhe plot\u00ebsia e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb gjenden brenda. \u00cbsht\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb drejtimit dhe q\u00ebllimit q\u00eb sot gjejm\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb vrasin veten kur dikush tjet\u00ebr i zhg\u00ebnjen. “Kur nuk ke armik brenda vetes, armiku jasht\u00eb nuk mund t’ju b\u00ebj\u00eb d\u00ebm” (Fjal\u00eb e Urt\u00eb Afrikane). Mos m\u00eb keqkuptoni, nuk ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe t\u00eb shikosh televizor, apo internet, por varet se \u00e7far\u00eb shikon; si\u00e7 thot\u00eb shprehja, “Televizioni \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor i mir\u00eb, por nj\u00eb mjesht\u00ebr i tmerrsh\u00ebm.” Ajo q\u00eb konsumon t\u00eb kontrollon. \u00cbsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull t\u00eb arg\u00ebtohesh, por n\u00ebse e p\u00ebrdor sepse je bosh, do t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh vet\u00ebm plot\u00ebsi t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ka di\u00e7ka interesante q\u00eb kujtoj kur isha nj\u00eb adhurues i televizionit me koh\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb. Kishte raste kur shkoja t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja programe p\u00ebr t\u00eb shikuar dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk gjeja asgj\u00eb t\u00eb re interesante dhe \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebja? Nuk do ta fikja televizorin, p\u00ebrkundrazi do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja p\u00ebr programe q\u00eb kisha par\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb dhe do t’i shikoja p\u00ebrs\u00ebri, sepse ishin interesante. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht se si shum\u00eb prej nesh sot jetojn\u00eb. Nuk shohim asgj\u00eb p\u00ebrpara nesh dhe prandaj kthehemi prapa n\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rilindur momentet q\u00eb dukeshin interesante. Ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb kaq krenar\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn e tyre sa q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb thon\u00eb nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e tyre. Ndalo s\u00eb jetuari n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn q\u00eb nuk mund ta ndryshosh. Nj\u00eb njeri pa vizion p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e tij gjithmon\u00eb kthehet te e kaluara e tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Duhet t\u00eb jesh i emocionuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen t\u00ebnde, pa marr\u00eb parasysh sa vje\u00e7 je. Po, e kaluara juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, sepse ju ka sjell\u00eb deri k\u00ebtu, por ajo p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendroheni tani \u00ebsht\u00eb se ku po shkoni dhe t\u00eb siguroheni q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb se e kaluara juaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Kur nj\u00eb person nuk mund t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb thell\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb vet, ai shp\u00ebrqendrohet me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb rrethanore (Viktor Frankl). Duke u rritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi ku isha inkurajuar vet\u00ebm t\u00eb lexoja libra akademik\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk m\u00eb dukeshin kurr\u00eb m\u00eb pak interesant\u00eb, burimi i vet\u00ebm i arg\u00ebtimit ishte televizioni. Kjo u b\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":977,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-976","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-mendimi-yt"],"yoast_head":"\n